No matter what online dating service you use, people are the same and look for the same things. The Key to a successful singles profile is CLARITY. You want to have nice clear photos and an easy to read profile.

Don't be fooled by your own thoughts about beauty is only skin deep. Photos are the most important element in a profile. Everyone has visual preferences and in most cases “looks do matter”. If at all possible, upload head shots and a standing body shot. Taking partial photos sends out a message that you are hiding something. There are times where partial photos can be quite artistic. But, for a dating site you want to display more candid and realistic photos. The photos need to display your present appearance. It's not fair to lead others on by posting photos from your high school days and you are in your mid thirties.

It's important to remember, there is someone for everyone. Someone will be attracted to the way you look now and you do not need to mislead others to find the right person. But, if you want someone who’s in shape, more than likely they will want someone who is in shape also. The best advice I have for this is…”Get in shape” if you want someone “who is in shape”.

Your profile must be POSITIVE. If you express your frustrations, you will push away those you want to attract. It’s cool to be “real”. But, that does not include being negative. It’s important to express your joys, pleasures, hobbies and taste. Focus more on telling people what you are looking for and less on what you are not looking for. Make sure you are very descriptive about yourself. Don’t take for granted that someone already knows who you are.

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