General Information   You Got My Back?


“The purpose of being in an intimate relationship is not to be in a place where we can hide from our weakness, but rather where we can safely let them go.” Marianne Williamson

For a positive and powerful relationship, each person must know that the other “has their back.” The phrase is self-explanatory. It is a yes or no answer. There are no gray areas – either you’ve got me or you don’t. Either I’ve got you or I DON’T.

In other words, your most intimate connection, the rapport with your significant other must be a place where you feel safe. Safety is the key word here. Do I feel safe with you and can you feel safe with me? While it appears to be such a straightforward statement, without this, all connections are doomed, not just intimate relationships. There can be no relationship unless each person has the safety and security they seek.

This security has very little to do with material objects. This shield is about protecting your spirit and your heart, not your mind. Is your heart safe with this person? Will they hold your confidences, uplift your spirit and will you do the same for them?

Michelle D. Smith
This does not mean that you will concur on every topic all the time. That is fantasy. What this offers an IDEAL; it is precisely what you should be seeking. Don’t be fooled by facades. Do not think it is just about you. Being part of a couple requires an “us” mentality. Us as in I can trust you implicitly and you can trust ME.

Keeping open communication enhances this most basic characteristic of a really great marriage or long term relationship. When you release your wants, you usually get everything you require and what you really desire. Far too many people only look at what they will gain. In reality, if you are with the right person for the right reason, you already have everything at your fingertips.

An intimate relationship in particular, necessitates you have each others back. Is it not worth waiting to find this unique connection, and then working to sustain it?

Michelle D. Smith

Michelle D. Smith is a visionary who seeks to share her knowledge with others. Showing how to use both spiritual and social skills in being a better you is her goal. Acknowledging the fact that most are searching for both truth and companionship, she seeks to bridge those "needs" with honesty, humor and creativity. Join her on this quest for the "new". Innovative ways of thinking, nurturing, loving and sharing, creates a new YOU!

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